Monday, November 28, 2016

10 Ways to Show Him that He is the One for You

So, you have finally met the man of your dreams. Now, how do you show him that he is the one you have been searching for all your life? You know you don’t want to overdo it, but you also know that you have to let him know that he is the “it” guy for you. Below are ten simple ways to show him that he is the one that gives you butterflies in your stomach and a passionately beating heart that sings out his name.

1. One of the best ways to show your man that you are totally in to him is to make him breakfast. There is nothing that says I love you quite like breakfast in bed. It lets him know that he is the first thing on your mind.

2. Make him a gift that shows exactly how you feel. Homemade gifts show their recipient that love and time has been used in crafting something especially for them. So create a card, a painting, a poem, and show the object of your affection that they are the one.

3. One of the best ways to show him that you care is to show that you care about the things his interested in. So perhaps, you are not a big football fan and he is? Then, it is time to purchase tickets to see his favorite team. No matter what it is that your guy is into, a band that you can’t stand or a team you’re tired of watching, it is time to show him that you know him and want him. And the best way to do that is to surprise him with a date he never expected. Do that and he will be bragging to his friends about his girl, the one who knew to buy tickets to that Monster Truck Extravaganza, The New York Giants game, or the Journey concert.

4. Now, ladies we all know that at the end of a long work day a man is ready to relax. So today, why don’t you help him a little? Prepare him a bubble bath. And a little spice to the experience. Light candles, seduce him into serenity. We all need a hand washing our back. And ladies, we know what comes next: a little massage to ease his muscle tension.

5. Most all of us have a favorite cuisine. So what is your guy’s favorite Indian, Mexican, Chinese, Jamaican, or Italian? If you don’t know, it is time to find out and create a perfect meal for your sweetheart. If you can’t cook, try bringing home takeout. Just make sure that you have plenty of time to enjoy each other after the meal is done.

6. Now. It is time to step outside the box. Think of something that you know both of us have never done but talked about doing. Perhaps, you have always talked about wanting to go see a particular band, go on a white water rafting trip, visit a particular museum; it is time to make all the talk a reality. You will blow him away by showing him that you remember the dreams you talk of together, and that you are willing to go the extra mile by making those dreams reality.

7. Is there something that you do that really bothers you guy? Do you smoke but he doesn’t? While then, go outside to puff. Show him that you are conscious of his feelings and respectful of his wishes. Does he hate it when you turn on the radio too loud in the morning? Then, buy some headsets. Whatever it is that turns your man off, start to remedy it. Showing your willingness to compromise is one of the best ways to show your love.

8. Sometimes, we simple allow ourselves to get too busy and forget to show our affection. So set a night away to relax with your guy. Rent a couple movies, pop some popcorn, and just have fun being together. And make sure you pay attention to his likes and dislikes. If he is a horror guy but you are into comedies, let him have his way this time. This is one way to show him that he is more than a fling; you want to spend time with him even if it’s just enjoying simple things.

9. Be available. I’m not saying that you should sit by the phone waiting on his call, but he should be able to reach you if he needs to. If you want him for the long term, you’ve got to show him that you plan to be around. So make sure to check your voice mail, and respond to his call as soon as you can. If he is trying to reach you, let him know that you want to be contacted.

10. The simplest way to let him know you love him is to simple say it. If you are ready to take that leap into forever with him, you’ve got to be able to express your feelings. So don’t hold your tongue. If he really is your one, you’ll be hearing “I love you” back.


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